Nomsa Buthelezi is scared that folks around her won’t accept her sexuality.
According to her, the very fact people are yet to simply accept her and her wife, Zandile Shezi-Buthelezi is basically affecting her and she or he feels they could not understand her.
Nomsa stated that even the safety guard at her complex doesn’t like her and her wife simply because they’re lesbians and she or he feels they could be in peril .
The couple tied the knot in an intimate traditional ceremony a few years ago and Nomsa is grateful for the support she is getting from her family and friends albeit the planet is yet to simply accept her for who she is.
Nomsa said: “I do get tons of hate from people everyday, but I don’t pay any attention thereto. Others check out us as if we aren’t humans. Every single day we are faced with an equivalent treatment even where we reside the securities don’t like us, hence the sensation of unsafety. We are just grateful for our families love and support”
“We fully support this initiative because it is the perfect platform to shine the sunshine on same-sex relationships. There are tons of individuals who are still trapped within the closet because they fear losing their relations or friends. Living a lie isn’t getting to help them.”
It was love initially sight for the couple despite having partners, the instant they laid eyes on one another they knew.
“We got married last year on 28 September. We met in Mpumalanga at Riah and Simphiwe’s wedding and it had been my first gay wedding. once I saw Zandile, I told my makeup artist there’s my type. Then Zandile also noticed me. Then her ally ran towards our bus and began greeting and kissing me on the cheek.
Nomsa concluded: “After the ceremony, Zandile asked us to hitch them for the reception. I went back to satisfy her and her friends. Sometimes I become sad because I’ve to go away my kids but I taught them to be strong. i used to be also browsing things and that I feel God knew what I wanted and that i didn’t concentrate. Things happened sort of a miracle and my life changed. There was something different about her. “But i used to be also very scared due to past relationships.”